Sweet, nearest LBS (not "our" LBS, but one with at least one employee who I know and really like) is going to get me a demo Bontrager RL...if I like it they can order me one for keeps.

I squished the RL, RXL (I think these were the men's versions), and a Jett, for comparison. I used to have a Jett and liked it, but it was maybe a hair softer than I needed. RL felt a tad firmer than the Jett, so that seemed like a safe bet. I don't want to shell out RXL cash, at least not until I've logged thousands of miles on the saddle and know whether or not it's really true love.