There certainly have been lots of great suggestions here, but I will also say that we(forum users) do NOT know the entire situation/conversation. That unfortunately is something that is lost through email/forum.

What I will say is this, this forum is great for giving suggestions for anyone, regardless of ability level. But in terms of fitting, it's pretty hard to do that by simply looking at a picture.Getting a fit is a great idea, but that knowledge has to be considered with each and every one of us. It is not as simple as looking at numbers and leaving it at that. There's also the converastion that happens between the person buying the bike, and the fitter... which is information we do not have.

My suggestion is to let Artaresia take these suggestions back to the shop with her, and let the two of them figure out what is comfortable. Whether that's another frame or more adjustments, is something that quite frankly is between the shop and Artaresia. Second guessing here on this forum without all of the information is simply making a decision without all of the facts.