@veganbikechick, early on in my search I test rode a Salsa Casseroll but it was too big for me and it was a small shop and they didn't have smaller ones, and they didn't seem interested in getting a smaller one in for me to ride. There were no other shops in town with smaller ones actually in stock. It is a lovely bike though. I think, all in all, just be open to various materials, gears, etc. and test ride. You'll find something that meets your needs. I'd love to know how it goes.
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