ahhhhhhhhhh . That is scary! I am glad I only paid $10. for it. This is why I was asking. I don't have any women I can talk to about this that have this problem I don't want my friends to think I am having problems you know. Cause I don't think I am really. Jusy having a bit of a bump in the relatinonship of 19 years. I am sure that is normal.