Do I expect too much?

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They offered to cut the bars down if I bring it in next week, but I just feel so uncomfortable going back. But I feel obligated, b/c they didn't charge me anything for the fit-tweaking.

Do not feel obligated to go back. I assume that store is where you bought the bike, so they should fit you properly, anyway (and they didn't). Go to your Trek store or to a place Kathi could recommend.