I've got 3x laced 32 spoke wheels, which have put up with my neglect and abuse and 60 lb weight gain quite well.

Used to think about 36 spoke, and might still get them some day if I wear out my 32 spoke. Handbuilt wheels are up high on my list of "some day I will get" goodies...

Never heard anyone complain about handbuilt wheelsets, seems they are well worth the cost of the upgrade.