I also do not meet the requirements for Oakleys - less because my prescription is extreme, because it isn't really that bad, but I have a really small interpupillary distance.... which results in the same thing, lenses that are too thick near the edges...

I really, really wanted wrap around lenses and NOT inserts, as I ride in the rain so much and it seems like it would be quite impossible to wipe them off if they got wet in-between the two lenses. I got a custom pair made by www.sportsoptical.com in Denver. The guy who runs the shop is super. He'll do what ever frames you want and he hand grinds the lenses so that they fit. His customer service was terrific and the glasses have been great. They were not cheap, but fortunately I have pretty good insurance. I've had them for about 4 years now and I'm thinking next year I may go for some new ones as I have managed to acquire some pretty wicked scratches on my current pair. While it would have been super nice to have several sets of lenses, they are too much.... so I went with photo-gray for the best versatility.