I think I was also overestimating what I needed to eat on a ride. I have been tweaking it constantly. I found that putting electrolytes in my water bottle kept me from tiring out with less food. It must be all the salt that we lose in sweat. I keep whole wheat pretzels as a small snack, and a granola bar or energy bar as emergency food. But the thing that works best for me is half a PBJ or peanut butter and banana on whole wheat. I eat that while everyone else is eating pie... at the break spot. It's a lot less calories than pie. But not as much fun.
For breakfast I eat oatmeal with fruit, flax seed and a little protein powder mixed in, with a little milk.
When I get home I eat yogurt (plain or Greek) with cut up fruit or a smoothie with similar ingredients plus ice.
If it is lunch time, I really prefer two eggs and a piece of toast and fruit. And a cup of coffee. My reading says you need some protein after a long ride of over 2 hours. These things seem to digest easily (for me) and don't have too many calories (or points).
2007 Ruby Comp/Specialized Dolce
2004 Bike Friday Crusoe/Specialized Dolce