Ok so I am letting it go. And to answer a few of the questions....we didn't want to spend the money for a hotel because they had said many times that we should stay with them if ever we had a job in the area. And times are tight so money being saved is good.
They do not live in a moist area. It is very dry where they live. I think this is more she expects her adult kids to take care of it and they are not. Both kids are back home right now due to it hard to be in your early 20's and make it on min wage. It is brother and sister. I can just see the sister going "I am not the maid he should clean it" and him saying " huh, the shower is dirty"?
Oh well I am passed it now. Thanks for all the insight ladies that was fun!