Yeah, it's stories like these that make me wonder how often rudeness is a consequence of ignorance of the relevant social cues and norms. This doesn't excuse her in my book! I've been quite insecure myself about when it's ok to follow, what is expected from me etc. (And I admit I occasionally like riding with the iPod in, but make sure to use only one earbud so that I can still be hearing what's going on around me.)
My partner and I both have both Monday and Tuesday off, which is great, but it's going to be quiet -- there'll be many chores around the house and garden, and she's working on a deadline for a personal project. We also want to go hiking. But I'm sure there'll at least be one longer ride (longer for me!).
Yesterday, after 24h of torrential rain, the weather turned nice just in time for our club ride (women, "slow to moderate pace"). We ended up doing just over 20 miles up a ridge that runs west of town - quite a suburban residential area (for Alaska!). It was wonderful climbing and climbing (for me!). Runkeeper overestimates the climb, but here's the map nonetheless: http://runkeeper.com/user/chryss/activity/41491565 .
Chris - formerly of Heidelberg, Paris and London, now of Fairbanks, Alaska
2011 Kona Sutra 49cm - Selle Italia Diva
2009 Specialized Rockhopper Comp Disk 15" - Specialized XC Body Geometry, 143mm