Good Luck with your email, Reesha. I hope you get to reconnect, or some sort of closure, whichever you wish for.

I had a friend that I only knew for a couple of months a few years ago. We were both travel nurses so we had that in common. However, she was very outspoken, abrasive, and irritated by the small things in life. I enjoyed her friendship in that we got to do things together (i.e., I wasn't so lonely all the time) and she was very social so I got invited to many events through her, but eventually her personality wore on me and I made the mistake of telling her once that I thought she was a bit abrasive.

She didn't take my opinion well and ceased all contact with me. I find myself constantly looking her up on facebook and wishing I had kept my mouth shut, but I wonder why. I have a need to be liked and be a "people-pleaser", and it makes me sad that she didn't want to be friends any longer. I know I need to just forget about the friendship and put it in my past, but am finding it very difficult.