Last year, we adopted 9 week old siblings from a foster/no-kill shelter. As Mimi said, they had already bonded, and we were luck in that they actually DID choose us when we went to see them! They are brother/sister, and have NEVER been apart (well, except when we had to temporarily separate them because Ellie went into heat early).

My DH stayed home a bit more when we first got them, but they have settled in with both of us working. We just bought a brand new leather couch, and they haven't destroyed that or any other furniture (though they do like to chew on the cherry knobs of the bedroom furniture!).

After having lost a 17 year old cat (whom I adopted at 10 weeks), these two have literally rescued us vs. the other way around.

So, I agree with the bonding piece - and if you can, siblings are terrific!

Good luck!

SheFly