Opinions-kittens or young cats?

[badger]

maybe when the time is right, what you should do is see if any of them will choose you. It's one thing to choose them, but they need to accept/adopt you, too!

[Kathi]

After my 20+ kitty passed away I looked at shelters several times but no kitty spoke to me. One day I was at the other end of town shopping and I decided I neeeded to look for a kitty, then, now. I drove to the shelter, filled out the papers and went with the lady helping me to see the available kitty's. We were talking about the cats but when one kitty heard my voice she started talking. The woman helping me was shocked as this cat was very shy and had not responded to anyone. She said they were going to put her on the "no adoption" list (still not sure what that means) because she was not responding to anyone. She was 6 yrs. old, Himayalan, Rag Doll mix. She was friendly, curious, active so I decided to give her a try. When I brought her home she hid under the bed only coming out to play, eat and sleep with me. I finally stuffed anything I could find under the beds and furniture to keep her from hiding. She got the message, she has become my best friend, sweet, loving, sometimes to dependent but laid back enough to tolerate our life style, boarding while we're out of town and frequent car trips to our condo.

Three years later she's still not friendly to visitors, probably never will be, but loves our little ski condo, still has a lot of curiousity, loves to play and has become a wonderful, forever fur baby.

BTW, I almost didn't adopt her because she was so pretty. I named her Megane (Celtic, meaning soft and gentle) because it describes her perfectly.

[zoom-zoom]

maybe when the time is right, what you should do is see if any of them will choose you. It's one thing to choose them, but they need to accept/adopt you, too!

Strays have often adopted us over the years...it's funny. But when DS and I have gone to the no-kill shelter to donate supplies they always encourage us to go visit the kitties in each of the 4 rooms. In these rooms most of the cats wander freely. And it's amazing how desperate so many are...you can barely walk without tripping over over-auditioning cats. Makes me want to take them ALL home!

[redrhodie]

I vote for one of each.

[Blueberry]

Gotta have photos in this thread

Here are my 3 "recent" additions:

[Velocivixen]

@Badger, yeah, it would be great to be in a room and just see what cats/kittens come up to us. I want them to like us too.

@Becky, for sure regarding why folks return cats. Sometimes it's something like the child has allergies or they're moving and cannot have pets, etc. The folks at the no kill shelter are not shy about sharing why cats have been returned, etc. I feel that they legitimately want to find forever homes for these cats and will work with you.

I think we're leaning toward the range of 6-14 month age range, and littermates if possible. We are open though, and I would like at least one of them to be black.

[Chile Pepper]

Oooh, I could not resist a kitten! I have two cats and four dogs, so no kittens in my near future--and that makes me sad. Those itsy bitsy balls of fur are just so cute! I would not want to miss that if I had the option.

[Koronin]

The reasons for abandoning or returning dogs or cats can be just crazy. I will never understand the dumping an animal because you're moving. We moved across state with our three cats and my parents ended up taking in the stray we had been helping. Long story short we took all 4 to my parents for about 2 months while I sold our old house and we moved to the townhouse we rented. Our three would not accept the stray, but my mom's cat had no problem accepting him, so he stayed with my parents who are very happy to have him there. The place we rented the company we rented through has a two pet limit, but with approval you can have more pets in one of their rentals. They called and talked to the owner who said we could have our three cats in her place. She didn't mind at all.

[Kathi]

Meggie in her kitty tree.

[goldfinch]

We have a neighbor stray, a Tom. He is the sweetest guy. I am horribly allergic to cats or I would take him in. I did take him to the vet. Got him neutered, dewormed, and got him his shots.

I hope he makes it. I wish I could find someone to adopt him.

[smilingcat]

We have a neighbor stray, a Tom. He is the sweetest guy. I am horribly allergic to cats or I would take him in. I did take him to the vet. Got him neutered, dewormed, and got him his shots.

I hope he makes it. I wish I could find someone to adopt him.

There are ways of coping with cat allergy. It has to do with cat dander. I have a friend whose SO is allergic to cats. My suggestion was to brush the cat regularly, a regular bath , after a while the cat will get "used" to the regular bath. The bath and grooming helps to control the cat dander. Another thing I suggested was to get a room air filter with HEPA filters to catch the cat dander. We use a vacume cleaner with HEPA filter. It's amazing how much fine dust it collects.

Depending on how severely allergic, and how much are you willing to do, you might be able to live in harmony with the cat. Maybe not...

Just a suggestion.

Sincerely,

smilingcat

[Koronin]

Cat dander is the typical reason for cat allergies, although some people are allergic to their saliva and a very few are actually allergic to their fur. My husband is one of those very few that is allergic to the fur. (He had one of those allergy tests and basically it told him he's allergic to everything, except food). He's also lucky from the stand point that once his system gets used to whatever it is causing the allergic reaction he builds up an immunity to it. It's more allergic to long furred animals (both cats and dogs) than to short furred ones, so we make sure we will only have short furred ones.
Oh and with brushing the furminator is a wonderful item. It not only helps get rid of loose fur, but also helps to keep the dander down as well. One of our is much more prone to a high amount of dander than the other two are.

[jessmarimba]

I'll have to check that out Koronin. I have one black cat with the worst dandruff I've ever seen and it's been that way for 8 years. I've tried everything (else) but I guess that's just how she is. Good suggestion.

[goldfinch]

There are ways of coping with cat allergy. It has to do with cat dander. I have a friend whose SO is allergic to cats. My suggestion was to brush the cat regularly, a regular bath , after a while the cat will get "used" to the regular bath. The bath and grooming helps to control the cat dander. Another thing I suggested was to get a room air filter with HEPA filters to catch the cat dander. We use a vacume cleaner with HEPA filter. It's amazing how much fine dust it collects.

Depending on how severely allergic, and how much are you willing to do, you might be able to live in harmony with the cat. Maybe not...

Just a suggestion.

Sincerely,

smilingcat

I have a friend that does all this with her cats as her spouse is allergic. I think it helps a little bit. But if I visit them for more than two days the asthma comes out with a vengeance. So in my case I think that it won't work. Plus, I have an elderly dog who does not tolerate cats. I think the cat would tolerate her though.

Still trying to find the tom a home before we hit the road again in a week. If I have no luck a neighbor will feed him provided that I spring for the food. She will continue the efforts to get him a home. I won't be back in this area again for months.