At least your BF's parents are active, Owlie. My in-laws' hobby is monitoring the comings and goings of their neighbors from their kitchen window. I can't tell you how absolutely rivoting our conversations--if you want to call them that--about that subject are. During a recent visit to our house, my FIL made a beeline to OUR kitchen window and starting reporting about our next door neighbor. I wanted to scream.
Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.
--Mary Anne Radmacher