I had a Lady Gel Flow and had exactly the same issues you had, soretaco. It was both too wide and too pear-shaped for me (and too squishy). I'm on a Specialized Jett 143 and have been much happier, though I am trying to get my hands on a Fizik Donna from my LBS, since it has a channel running the length of the saddle, instead of a cut-out, I have some issues that I attribute to pinching at the front of the cut-out.