I love plaid. I still had all of the tartan kilts from my early teens when I was first married and they actually fit me.
LPH, I guess some couples go overboard with the cake smooshing. DH and i had a very small wedding, celebrated afterwards with dinner in a restaurant. We "fed" each other the piece of cake, with no smearing. It was just one bite.
DS and his wife had the "big" i.e. kind of ridiculous reception last June, after being married for 9 months. They went all out with the cake thing. They were, ah, sucking face, eating the cake off of the other one's face. Everyone else thought it was hysterical, DH and I, along with all 8 of the other staid New Englanders who were there felt very uncomfortable.