My friend is missing

[Miranda]

Pam, I am so sorry for you and your feelings of anguish. But really, what can you do? Unfortunately, nothing. Frustrating, yes.

I have some friends like this in a way also. Certain things about them have been a godsend to my life at times. Other things in their behavior make me wonder why I would put myself thru the pain of associating with them.

But, I've learned to take it at what it's worth. And when there are those things that I have said or did my peace on, I know I can't control another person/ outcome. I try to let the worry go out of my heart. Easy to say, hard to do I know.

You, and your friend's welfare will be in my thoughts for the best. Try not to make yourself sick, sweetie. It hurts you. Sure your friend would not want you to be hurt. Unfortunately when another person is sick, and only capable of so much in their sick dsyfuctional state, we hafta try and accept it as is, or let it go.

So sorry~ (((hugs))).

[azfiddle]

Pam,
Sorry to hear about your friend- I can only imagine your feelings of concern and worry right now. Hang in there.

[indysteel]

Pam, I'm so sad for you and your friend. I certainly hope he's found--know that people know he's missing. I'll say a prayer.

[Bike Chick]

Oh, Pam! How awful! I'm so sorry. Sending caring thoughts and hugs your way.

[emily_in_nc]

Sad and scary. I can only imagine how worried you must be. People just don't leave their pets without a good reason. I hope this doesn't end as badly as it could.