
Originally Posted by
PamNY
I think DAF explains something I experience a lot -- which is absolute exhaustion after 2 hours at most parties. A small group of close friends is a different thing, but a roomful of strangers exhausts me. I think that concept explains it.
I agree...the same thing happens to me at events where I have to interact with a bunch of strangers. It also definitely explains how I feel in big cities...my best friend and I were in NYC for a couple of days once, and on the second day she finally had to drop me off in Central Park and tell me to go for a run while she went into a museum--I was so stressed out and on edge from the overload that I was driving her crazy! That day was a perfect example of some of the symptoms of DAF including being irritable, moody, unable to concentrate, more impatient, and unable to handle noise and commotion...you can imagine I wasn't a very pleasant person to be around at that time. I've also realized this happens to me at work sometimes...right now I am doing agency nursing which is basically being a substitute nurse for nursing homes etc. In other words, always going to unfamiliar places where I am expected to multitask in the midst of a bunch of chaos and interruptions, doing a job that requires a lot of vigilance to avoid making errors but really isn't very interesting (mainly passing a whole lot of meds)--great recipe for DAF if there ever was one. Maybe that's why after a shift I always have a major urge to go for a hike or trail run once I get some sleep to recover. I am very glad that I will soon be working in one place, doing something a whole lot more interesting (where "learned fascination" rather than directed attention will be the primary type of attention used, to use the terms presented in that theory). Now if I could just get that paperwork to go through faster...
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