Sometimes I'll talk myself into riding in 20 mph or more winds; sometimes I won't. If it's just going to be a headwind, I can deal with it. Crosswinds not so much. Now that it's mostly just DH and I, I missing riding in larger groups on days like that. Staying in more sheltered areas--like your park--can help, too. I will say that when I have forced myself to just gut it out, I've seen almost an immediate return on the effort. It does make you stronger for sure.
Live with intention. Walk to the edge. Listen hard. Practice wellness. Play with abandon. Laugh. Choose with no regret. Continue to learn. Appreciate your friends. Do what you love. Live as if this is all there is.
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