Hi Crankin,

My condolence to everyone in his family, to all his friends and to you and your husband. Life is precious and no matter how old we are and to die unexpectedly in such unfortunate circumstances, it doesn't make it any easier. To say that he had a wonderful full life, is to lessen the hurt we all feel. But it doesn't take away your pain.

The gentleman was gracious, giving, and compassionate soul. And no amount of words can express the sorrow his friends he touched and people he touched.

Understand too that you will have lots of strong emotions: sorrow, anger, emptiness... Be kind to yourself. This is all part of grieving. It just means that you really cared for the person.

peace be with you,

Smilingcat