Somehow Dr. Laura forgot to read her own book!

One must weigh the bad and the good and see if the good outweighs the bad. Sometimes the way to deal with it is to vent to ones friends (physical or cyber) and get it all off of one's chest before being able to step back and see what the problem is, how bad it really is and what would really be helpful in the situation. That's what women do for each other.
If my bestfriend took all of my husband-bashing to heart, she would be hiring an attorney for me!