Deanna and Yellow - WORD!!!

That's it in a nutshell - it's a give and take, so pick up the guys dirty undies... I have to assume he does do good things for you or puts what with your nonsense at times otherwise why would you stay with him?

And I don't agree with the throw stuff away thing. What if he did that to you? Would piss you off wouldn't it? It's a matter of leading by example. So put hampers and trash cans in every room and use them yourself. If he doesn't then at last it's close by for you to put away his stuff. Life is too short to be pissed about something so insignificant.