Whenever you start getting angry about doing "his work" you should also consider the things he does for you and puts up with. Partnership is really a give and take and this is really apparent when it comes to chores. I can't remember the last time I had to do any work in OUR yard, and yet DH doesn't complain to mother nature when she scatters leaves all over the place, even hours after he raked up her last mess, so I pile up his papers and clothes so he knows where to look. I was also the one who really wanted a dog, yet he patiently cleans up after him whenever he needs to mow the lawn. He puts up with my apparent mental block against closing things all the way and I help his drink cans make it all the way to the recycle bin.



