Good for you for sticking with your biking! This last summer I tried both the Selle Italia Diva and Lady (Ldy) Gel flow saddles. The cutout for the Lady Gel flow is more narrow and shorter - and perfect for me. I suspect that it would not work for you in a breakout. I had to return the Diva as I found the cutout to be too long and too wide for me and caused certain....problems.

I've never ridden an Adamo saddle, but there are women here for whom Adamo works well - it certainly removes any problems with the nose of the saddle!