To be or not to be - gray

[shootingstar]

There are hair stylists who think it's a great thing if a customer chooses to have natural colour: better hair texture.

And it tends to be hair stylists who have had quite a number of years experience: they're tired of dealing with some of the hair chemicals. They become sensitive to the chemicals. (this should be a warning flag to us)

These are the hairstylists who enjoy trying a new, chic and quality haircuts on customers. I've had several hairstylists like this...over 20 yrs. experience.

[celticgarden]

Fun thread. I've been trying to pluck up the courage to stop coloring. For inspiration I check the stories of the lovely ladies here http://goinggraylookinggreat.com/great_grays/

Short cut with curly hair? Check out "Shira's story"

http://goinggraylookinggreat.com/ind..._shiras_story/

I'm definitely tired of the self analysis and soul searching that I've put myself through in trying to decide. Ultimately, I'm a natural girl and would like to contribute to the cause of changing beauty perceptions. And I'm a rebel. But I'm a vain Leo. I was amazed at how firmly some of my work colleagues felt about the idea of going grey. "Oh, it will definitely age you!"

So, the story is not yet written but I think this is it. My stylist herself has said that she will go grey in 2 years...and keep it funky. To be continued!

For those that seek alternative (less toxic) coloring products look in Ecocolors and Logona.

peace! I agree that it feels absurd to worry about hair color with the troubles in the world as they are. I'm trying to be on a path that is more authentic and truer to ME. We shall see.

[Catrin]

I color my hair a light auburn that I like and isn't too far from the color it used to be long ago. I have very fine hair and when it is mixed with gray - TO ME - my color looks all washed out and I just don't care for it. It really has nothing to do with how others see me - but about how I see myself. If I do put off re-coloring a little longer than I should sometime, it isn't as obvious as it would be if I had selected some other color.

At some point I may stop coloring it again, but not for now, I have had different opinions on this over the years. It costs me an entire $8.00 a month, takes an hour of my time, and I am happy with how I look. To me that is worth it

[Selkie]

In the spring, I decided that I had enough with coloring my hair and decided to go natural. My hair is probably about 35% white and almost all of it is on the crown of my head. My hair stylist came up with an idea to use a semi-permanent color in my natural light brown to cover the red so the transition would be easier. Swimming six days a week made this more challenging, but I was able to find a pigment-depositing shampoo/conditioner that kept the red from leaching through. In early August, we agreed that it was no longer necessary to do the semi-permanent color.

I am so glad that I did this. I probably have three to four inches of hair that has no color on it and it is gorgeous (even my hair stylist agrees). Among the good genes that I got from both parents is a gorgeous shade of silver that is pure white and sparkles. I haven't seen my natural color in more than 20 years and I keep thinking, why the hell did I color it so long?

The best thing of all is that I no longer have to spend 90 minutes in a salon every five/six weeks. Cutting my hair takes 20 minutes. In addition, I'm saving more than $120 a visit. :-) From the back, my hair is completely light brown.

I understand why people choose to color their hair. I had fun playing with hair color, highlights, etc.

My decision to let it go natural has a lot to do with embracing getting older, to include the changes it brings in my appearance. It's really a privilege to age, not everyone gets the chance.

[lph]

Way to go Selkie! I've been thinking about reposting to this thread myself recently. My hair is finally getting long enough for me to feel it looks pretty nice again.

It's been a learning experience. I really do want to have my natural hair colour, grey or not. It feels great to not have to tend to an illusion of what I look like. But I was surprised at how upset I was at cutting my hair short! I'm used to going out in public looking pretty darn frumpy, and I really didn't think I cared that much. But the short cut with the bizarre curls growing straight up or making Supermanlike cowlicks in my forehead made me feel downright ugly for a while, or like I was wearing somebody else's wig.

Like you I've been happy at finding out that the colour grey can be pretty, too I probably do look older. I am older, so why not. I get why people colour their hair. It does look good. But right now I'm finding out grey looks pretty good too, and has it's own advantages.

[Crankin]

Still haven't changed my mind.
I had my hair cut today; a couple of years go I stopped getting highlights because my hair is so short, they were gone in 2 weeks. I get an all over blonde color, 3-4 times a year. It looks fabulous as it grows out, in fact, it looks like I had expensive highlights done.
So, there are lots of little wisps of gray on one side of my head. They look kind of blonde, but I know they are grey. It's not an issue now, as I will be getting a color next month and they are not noticeable. But, I can just see me with a head of gray. I will look old. I'm still not used to having brown hair, let alone gray. I guess I am the only one who doesn't want to be gray.

[surgtech1956]

I'm all natural too. Gray streaks in my brown hair. I wear my hair short. I thought about coloring a few times, but that was it. I would much rather see someone with gray hair, then some of these 'terribley' bad color jobs.

[malkin]

... short cut with the bizarre curls growing straight up or making Supermanlike cowlicks in my forehead ...

This describes my hair!

[new2ride]

I was a toe head as a baby. Totally blond into my 20s, then it seems to get a little darker. I've had a little grey hair since my teens but no one knew expect me. It blended with the blond and looked like highlights. My hair was always long until I reached my late 20s. I decided to cut it very short (think Bidgitte Nielson), my hair was shorter.

Now I'm 50+ and hair is still short but I would estimate 75% of my hair is white, no more grey. It doesn't bother me in the least. Most women and some men assume it's colored and inquire where I have my hair done. I was on a cruise a couple weeks ago and was snorkeling in Jamaica. A lady on the catamaran had finished snorkeling and was rubbing something all over her hair (she was much older than me & her hair was dyed that yellowy blond color). She tossed the tube at me and said feel free to use it because it would help to preserve my color. I just started laughing and said thanks but I didn't need it. She asked me if I colored my hair and I told her I didn't. She couldn't believe it and my DH confimed it.

I feel good the way I am, but I truly understand why women and men dye their hair. My hair grows very quickly, I get it cut every 3 1/2 to 4 weeks. If I dyed it, I would have to color it every time I had it cut. Too expensive of a habit for me