Single Mom + Triathlon training = Guiltfest…

[indysteel]

Most, but not all, states have a law regulating at what age children can be left alone. The age varies quite a bit from state to state. This general issue came up in another forum I frequent, in which I posted a link that was a compilationof each state's law. I'll have to see if I can find it.

[limewave]

Lovebug, what a tough place to be. I understand your desire to do triathlons, to train and to do more. With kids and little support, it can feel like you are anchored, trapped even. Your children may be a little young to be home by themselves yet, but in a year or two, things will be quite different. Have you considered putting your goals on hold for a little while? And in the mean time, do what you can. Think of it as "base-training." (That's what I'm telling myself anyways).

I really, really, want to do some triathlons and eventually do an Ironman myself, but with two young children, it's just unrealistic for me to carve out that kind of training time. I'm hoping to run a a marathon this year, and its going to be a real challenge to squeeze in the long runs. And most of my bike training is on the trainer--even in the summer. It's not my first choice, but there are many days that the only time I can train is late at night and I can't leave the kids home alone.

[bouncybouncy]

I agree with limewave here...seems like another year or two will give them ample time to grow into that age where they should start doing things themselves (morning routines like channlluv said)

That being said, it does not mean you have to bag your training just don't feel the need to stick to a rigid schedule until your kids are more independent.

Another note, I used to lap swim at a pool that would rope off half the pool for lessons and the other half for lap-swim. Maybe your area might offer something similar? Also, our YMCA has a great summer kids camp that the kids are in, giving you a few hours to train in the pool, treadmill (dreadmill in my mind, but if it is all you have!) and/or spinning classes! This would keep you in great shape and "train-ready" when the time comes you can devote yourself to a schedule...

my $0.02...Good Luck and don't stop getting out there when you can!!!

[Chinook]

Excuse my ignorance for the correct terminology - but couldn't you share babysitting with other single mothers in your community? A single mother babysitting co-op?