Quote Originally Posted by alexis_the_tiny View Post
This might be very ill-advised but,

Dear boyfriend, go sod yourself. First you try to shunt me off with this group when you rode with another. Now you say I have to be able to ride 40km in 1 hour and 14 minutes before I can ride with this group because you're riding with them or I must go join the other group? Seriously, who died and made you god?
Oh How I hear you! My mother's favorite statement was "you either have to learn to think of them as endearing qualities or kill them>'' Been there done that and have metaphysically killed them frequently. That is why I now ride almost exclusively solo or with a group of women. I have had quite enough of trying to keep up with anyone.