Another point is that maybe it's not always that important to do the right thing. I don't mean purposely doing the wrong thing, like endangering someone, but just letting it go and not making a moral issue out of a small situation that doesn't deserve it. Maybe the cyclist ahead of you isn't paying attention because she's upset about something, maybe she's in a huge hurry, maybe she's a newbie, maybe she's training for the ride of her life, maybe it just doesn't matter. Maybe the driver behind you looking exasperated is pissed off about something else, maybe she's met a dozen stupid cyclists on the way and you happen to be nr 13, maybe she's an insecure driver with her shoulders up around her ears and low tolerance for anything new.
Lord knows, I can be as judgmental and then some as the next person, but in traffic I really try to just not get so involved. Most of the time we just have to wing it as best we can, and sometimes people just make bad choices and have to muddle through.
Winter riding is much less about badassery and much more about bundle-uppery. - malkin
1995 Kona Cinder Cone commuterFrankenbike/Selle Italia SLR Lady Gel Flow
2008 white Nakamura Summit Custom mtb/Terry Falcon X
2000 Schwinn Fastback Comp road bike/Specialized Jett