I'm not pro or con shaving/waxing, but I did hear (and can't remember if I posted it here or elsewhere- so sorry if this is repeated...) that hair down there has the purpose of reducing friction during sex. I'm guessing if that's truly the purpose that would mean it would do the same (reduce friction) if you're rubbing against the saddle as well (maybe?) Anyway, it cost too much, too frequently, for this single mom to even consider waxing (damn teacher's salary Although maybe I'd get more dates if I did For now, I'll stick to my neatly trimmed hair-do