I don't "keep score." I do send thank you cards to the kids who gave me gifts. I do give my students a gift - something little since I need to get 30 or more, usually academic related.

I think part of it is showing appreciation and that they have a relationship with you. I don't think they feel obligated. The grins on their faces when they hand me the gift are priceless and they can't wait for me to open them. You gotta remember I spend 6 hours a day, 5 days a week with these guys. They get attached. And so do I.

Veronica