I'm there with you. I've been fighting that same battle the last 10 months. My husband hashas recently started to fully understand just how unhappy I am. unfortunately, I'm the "bread winner", but I do make damn good money and it won't hurt us for me to take even a decent pay cut. Sure, we won't be living as frivolously as we currently do, but we won't be broke, either. Basically, I told him I was D-O-N-E and at 35, I'm too young to spend a lifetime being absolutely miserable no matter what the pay. I've spent the last two weeks actively searching for a new job in the sports/fitness industry. We'll see.....