I want to look into the Total Immersion materials.
He's not interested in taking swim lessons from a professional instructor. I've encouraged him several times on this. He's awfully insecure in the water, and while he's willing to let me experiment on him he's not willing to let anyone else but wife & daughter try to teach him anything. My attitude is, I'd like to teach him if I can, but my main goal is for both of us to have a good time whether he learns anything or not.
The wreck distracted us and we didn't get back to the pool for a few months. Once in a while I'd ask "Would you like to swim this morning?" Finally a few days ago he answered yes. Even though he hadn't swam in months (other than playing in the ocean over Thanksgiving), he improved a lot. I had him do some glide & kick, stopping to breathe, and even three strokes at a time, again stopping to breathe. Then we did one last thing--glide & kick and breathe to the side!
2009 Trek 7.2FX WSD, brooks Champion Flyer S, commuter bike