I would agree that it seems people "outgrow" the finess/flat bar road bike quickly. It really isn't that much trickier to get used to the drop bars. I honestly rarely use the drops and keep my hands on the hoods or top of the bar.
I actually got a road bike and went clipless at the same time which really wasn't too smart
But I did get a used road bike to start which made me feel a little better when I would fall over and scratch it!
Alison - mama of 2 (8yo and 6yo)
2009 Independent Fabrication steel Crown Jewel SE
1995 trek 800 steel MTV