Probably said way more often by people than I realize.

But then, in light of bigger stuff, to me, not worth frettin'.

I'm a more direct person and I know for certain this can bug some folks. So hope not to fall into "I'm sorry" trap.

Maybe better focus on finding a good thing to say to someone after delivering a more negative comment? Someone said to me that complimenting a person is tougher than..finding negative stuff to say these days.