Thinking abut you.
My dad has prostate cancer, and may I add, he's been living with it for 20 years, thanks to hormone treatments. He is 85 and still works part time . But, before he got the dx, he had years of vague symptoms, lots of bladder infections, some bleeding. They were not related to the prostate stuff. I guess men can have a lot of things that can go wrong in that area, that we never think about.
My grandfather had bladder cancer, but I was not around him when he was sick. He was in his late 70's, and he smoked, drank too much, and was overweight, which they directly attributed the cancer to.