Great news - hang in there! This too shall pass, and will eventually be forgotten. I remember when I had a bad bout of ITB syndrome back in 2003, I think it was, and had to lay off the bike for many weeks, eventually coming back very slowly. Now that seems like another life; I can barely remember it. In the overall scheme of things, what you're going through now is but a blip. Not trying to minimize your pain or frustration, but there are many more rides in your future!
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow