you have my sympathy- having moved 17 times in 37 years of marriage, both within the country and internationally and having had to handle it alone since my husband was always sent off immediatly ( no not military, oil and chemical construction and petro chemical) and for 10 out of the 17 with kids and pets, I feel your pain. You'd think about the third time it would get easier but it never does.

Take a little extra time to muck hew and sort, and another little time to explore the new area as a reward and before you know it, you'll be moved. Then just unpack basic necessities and take a break before you start unpacking anything but bare essentials.

good luck