You should read all the threads about saddle fitting. It's a bit tedious to sort through, but you need to know the information, and it can make a big difference.

Once you truly understand (and feel) what it means for the saddle to properly support your sit bones, you can find one that suits you. If your bones are properly supported, your soft tissue will be much happier.

You may then have to adjust the saddle repeatedly to get everything perfect, but it's worth the effort.