Is there any way you could post a photo of yourself on your bike from the side, whether on a bike trainer or even next to a wall if you can't get an action shot, anything is better than nothing. That might help us help you!
Since you're quite petite, it doesn't sound like a 44 cm bike is too small for you, on the surface, but I know there are gals on here that ride larger bikes for their height than I do since everyone is proportioned differently. Just a data point for you: I am just a hair under 5'2" and take about a 46 cm in a road bike. I need WSD as I have long femurs and end up using a setback seatpost to get the proper knee over pedal-spindle position, so I can't deal with a long top tube at all.
Post a picture if you can, feet at 3 and 9 o'clock is best.
Emily
2011 Jamis Dakar XC "Toto" - Selle Italia Ldy Gel Flow
2007 Trek Pilot 5.0 WSD "Gloria" - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow
2004 Bike Friday Petite Pocket Crusoe - Selle Italia Diva Gel Flow