I too feel that pushing a harder gear makes me feel a little more stable. Also, It just takes time to get used to the bike and understanding that it won't just fly out from under you. I'm still learning that. I'm also very petite so when the wind comes i move all over the place because of it. It's just kind of a fact that crosswinds always suck.
On one of my first couple of rides me, my bf, and his friend got caught in a crazy storm. we were on a busy road with NO shoulder and the rain was so hard that we couldn't see. The wind was pushing me all over the road and I'm just panicking thinking that these dumbass drivers are going to hit me because they're passing us on a double yellow line, single lane per side road! It was NOT a fun introduction to cycling. However, now normal wind doesn't scare me as much. rainy, lightning, slippery road, and stupid drivers, with wind still does.



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