Cali,
Oh - I hate to be negative! But it sounds like the Jett is NOT the saddle for you.
You've given it time - you've given it quite a fair amount of saddle time. Your tush has been put to the test, it seems. I suppose it is possible to fit yourself to the saddle instead of finding one that fits you, but you should not need to do that. Pain is NOT a good thing! There are a good number of saddles out there. There's GOT to be one for you, besides the Dolce, if that one doesn't please you aesthetically. Might take some searching and test riding. I am hoping you are able to find an LBS that allowings such testing. Don't give in too easily. Find something that feels good to you. Good luck!!!!
annie
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