Wow. Thanks for all the advice and suggestions. I'm definitely trying to keep in mind that this is a ride and not a race. I really want to enjoy each of the towns along the way. I can't wait to see all the people and their bikes and set ups I can't wait to meet the locals who come out and support the ride. I can't wait for the PIE!
I've packed my duffle 3 times so far. Constantly removing/adding... but now that I have all my "necessary" odds and ends rounded up in one place, I'm going to pack what I need and try to remove half of that! At least that's what they say to do. We'll see what happens. I've got everything stowed away in ziplocs, and all my different tubes of goo for sun protection, butt protection etc.
I purchased a small battery operated tent fan suggested by many of the veterans on the RAGBRAI forum. I've got my jerseys, shorts, shoes. I've got garbage bags for my rain gear, since I spent all my money on jerseys and shorts I think I'm set!
Working out the logistics has been somewhat comical. I'm already thinking about how we might do that differently... I'm already thinking about next year
I will definitely post when I get back. Thanks again for your suggestions and sharing in my excitement!