Wow! I have not been on TE in MONTHS and this is the first thing I see! Congratulations, Gnat! My DH & I got married on bikes also - but no dress/tux for us. I had a regular jersey but had an artsy friend make a veil to go on my helmet.
Whatever you decide, make it your own and HAVE FUN!!
"When I'm on my bike I forget about things like age. I just have fun." Kathy Sessler
2006 Independent Fabrication Custom Ti Crown Jewel (Road, though she has been known to go just about anywhere)/Specialized Jett