Quote Originally Posted by Crankin View Post
Yes, I was not as fortunate with my MIL, either. So, no matter what I think, I keep my mouth shut, or really think about how to say something.
The last 20 years would have been so much nicer for me had my MIL ever followed this line of thought. My mother is the one who showed up to our Christmas wedding in a lavender skirt suit...when everyone else was in long Wintery dresses. She returned her forest green long dress at the last minute--because it didn't show off her legs (seriously, she said that). So guess who stands out in the wedding photos like a sore thumb?

What a beautiful wedding. They are a lovely couple. But I am with you--so thankful I don't have a DD. Planning my own wedding was a big enough PITA. I am happy to not have to do that ever again or have to have any hand in helping anyone else with theirs, either.