Congrats on getting a new bike.
Since you've been looking at all the advice, you'll notice that most of it pertains to fit--buy the bike that fits the best. If you cannot reach the brake levers from your normal riding position (I do not ride in the drops, so reach from the drops is not an issue for me), that says to me that there is a fit problem.
What does your local bike shop say about the reach issue? Can they swap out the brake levers for short reach ones? Will that even make a difference, or is the bike too big?
Find the bike that fits. Do not buy the bike that does not fit. Best of luck to you.