Would you accept a monetary gift from a friend?

[ny biker]

I have to admit I was feeling really strange about her offer at first. But after reading all of your posts, I started to think I might accept it. She is a good friend. I know there would be no strings attached and no expectations.

Last night I discussed it with DH. He looked so defeated when I told him about her offer. I know he feels bad that I'm having to work 2 jobs right now and that he can't provide for us the way he wants to. He's working so hard. He has a family business with his parents, they are having health issues right now. DH is juggling 3 jobs and also trying to chase new work.

Anyways, all that to say, I think I'm going to tell my friend no. Missing one trip is not a big deal. DH has enough pressure on him right now without adding more guilt.

FWIW, my father worked 2-3 jobs while I was growing up just to pay the bills. We never had a lot of money. Most of our vacations were trips to visit relatives, staying at their house. When we did go anywhere else, we always went camping because we couldn't afford to stay in hotels. And going out to dinner was usually McDonalds. But my friend whose family had lots of money once described his father as "a ball of hate." I'd much rather have my parents than his.