Sad Day. Need extra miles...

[OakLeaf]

oh (((((((blackhillsbiker))))))) hugs to you too.

What a sad few days.

[roadie gal]

I'm so sorry. Losing an animal IS losing a family member. It hurts. Hugs to you.

[mtbdarby]

((hugs)) to you both on your losses. They hold our hearts forever, just like our kids. Cherish the memories.

[bmccasland]

So sorry Bikenurse and Backhillslider on your losses

It's hard to loose your fur babies. I'm still missing Nala who crossed the Rainbow Bridge in March. But know that they're now happy healthy and romping to their heart's delight. They definitely leave paw prints on our hearts.

[PinkBike]

so sorry for your losses.
i know it's gonna be a little lonely for a little bit.

[nancielle]

So sorry to learn of the losses of your fur friends. It's difficult adjusting to life without them but Zen's right, they never really go away.

[blackhillsbiker]

Thanks. Our big dog is wandering around looking for him. We all feel a little lost right now. I'm hoping Idgie (our beloved yellow lab) was waiting to greet him.

Deb

[sundial]

I just got a phone call that our sweet English Setter, Maggie died.

Oh BikingNurse, I'm so sorry. Nature was cruel to take Maggie much too early. Perhaps she was needed to help comfort another special little friend who was hesitant to cross the Bridge. You are near in my thoughts and when the darkest hour is upon you, look up at the stars and know she has been restored for all eternity.

[sundial]

I'd write more, but I can't see through the tears.

Deb

I'll share a box of Kleenex with you.

[BikingNurse]

UGH! I don't know about you Blackhillsbiker, But I keep looking towards Maggie's spot to see her in the morning.
I told my kids that my grandpa was going to take really good care of her in heaven. that helped them. but now how do I get it though my subconsious?

[sundial]

...but now how do I get it though my subconsious?

There's an ebb and flow to the healing process. Give yourself time to mourn and don't feel like you need to defend your grieving. Our pets are family members too.

I lost my australian shepherd in Aug '08 and I didn't remove her feeding bowl until Feb of this year. I just didn't want to see an empty spot where her bowl was.

[spokewench]

So sorry for your loss. It is sooo hard to lose our furry loved ones. They are family too.

[badger]

ugh, this is turning into a good bye thread.

My parents' cat, whom I had a soft spot for, turned a corner for the worse this morning and I had to take him in to be put down. He was sick for a long time with kidney disease, and it finally just got the best of him and he couldn't even stand anymore. I just saw him yesterday and he was ok. I certainly didn't wake up this morning thinking I'll be helping him cross the rainbow bridge.

I've never seen my dad cry, so it was hard to watch that.

thanks for letting me hijack this thread with my sadness

[bmccasland]

(((((Badger))))) So sorry you had to make the last trip to the vet with your parent's kitty.

My a/c repairman asked - where's your dog? Nala thought everyone came to see her. So she'd follow him around, but would sit out of the way when told. Apparently he'd just lost his dog at 16 years

Our fur babies live long full lives, but short compared to ours. And it hurts when they've gone.

[Kim1976]

Awww, I am so sorry about your loss My parents just put their dog (was mine, but they took her for me when she was 1) just died back in January. It saddened me because I couldn't go back to see her.