Well, I guess I'm going to be 39 this year--does that classify as middle age? I have more confidence and I'm more comfortable in my own skin than when I was younger. My stylist politely pointed out that it simply means I don't get any more birthdays--"You'll never get any older!" I don't mind the wrinkles, and I'm in better shape than high school. I always swore I'd never dye my hair or have plastic surgery, which means--it is what it is. My sister is 25 years older than me, and she is my inspiration. I don't view her as old. She had never been on a bicycle until 4 years ago. I can barely keep up with her.

While at a ride this weekend, I commented. "Maybe when I get older, I'll get one of those cool looking trikes!" Then I realized, I have trouble keeping up with my sister. Exactly how old would I have to be?!

It's all about self-confidence. I don't care what others think. Besides, my husband and all my girlfriends are older, so I don't get to complain about aging