Quote Originally Posted by Bike Chick View Post
Your husband can't make you feel guilty---that's something you are doing all by yourself. It's a curse we women have. We feel responsible for everyone else's feelings and try to keep everyone happy. It's an impossible task.

You are entitled to enjoy a solo activity, have time to yourself a few times a week and get some exercise. It will make you a better wife and mother and a happier person. Think of the example you are setting for your children. Go ride your bike and quit feeling guilty, mom. Hubby will adjust.
+1.

Is this typical of your husband? Is there some underlying insecurity that your cycling triggers for him? Regardless of how you answer those questions, if you want to ride, ride. While it would be nice to have your husband's blessing, you don't need it or his permission. I don't think you need to be confrontational about it. Just calmly tell him that you're going for a ride. If he resists, tell him you're sorry he feels that way and that you're nevertheless going for the ride. Then go and enjoy yourself. He'll catch on.