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  1. #1
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    Quote Originally Posted by katherine View Post
    .Mr.Joe, I'm sure your wife loves that you discuss her weight on the internet with a bunch of strangers.
    haha QFT!
    Life goes by pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, and do whatever you want all the time, you could miss it.

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    Yup, this is a weird thread. Like arielmoon, I beat lots of guys. Lots of guys beat me. Sure, in general male athletes are stronger/faster than female athletes at the same level of training, but in a random male/female couple it's more like who happens to have better genes, a more suitable body type, a better athletic base from before, is more active, trains better, has a lighter bike, yadda yadda yadda.

    But y'all already said that so I'll go shut up
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    ha. I have a feeling if he shows her this thread like people are recommending, a divorce is in order.

    I've just been shaking my head, thinking wtf - if it was his best male friend that had started cycling a ton and the best male friend was kicking his ***, would he have gone on road biking forums going "is it normal that someone who's riding more often than me and training more is kicking my *** up the hills?"

    And of course - if this was a male forum that he was on, I'm thinking they'd ask for his wife's number and ask him what kinda pansy has a wife who can bike faster than them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Catriona View Post
    ha. I have a feeling if he shows her this thread like people are recommending, a divorce is in order.

    I've just been shaking my head, thinking wtf - if it was his best male friend that had started cycling a ton and the best male friend was kicking his ***, would he have gone on road biking forums going "is it normal that someone who's riding more often than me and training more is kicking my *** up the hills?"

    And of course - if this was a male forum that he was on, I'm thinking they'd ask for his wife's number and ask him what kinda pansy has a wife who can bike faster than them?
    heh, this is indeed a strange thread... I was just picturing what I would think if an (non-existent) partner were to go on a forum full of strangers and say what he has been saying. I would NOT be happy with that person!

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    I guess I should encourage taylor to join, since its more her thing. I'm afraid shed totally laugh at my thread though.

    Thanks to those who saw the thread for what it is, a bumbling question from a bumbling hubby. Sorry if ive offended members here. Was not my intent.

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    I wasn't particularly offended. I try to compare my abilities to someone's experience and the type of bike they ride. For instance, I am proud that usually on a century nobody passes me on a hybrid bike like what I have. I also told the husband that if I'm riding his tail, he should go faster to challenge us more, although I will get faster as the season progresses. I like when I am able to maintain a faster pace than him because that just means I'm getting fitter, not just that I am winning against him, I'm competing with myself, not him. We are training partners.

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    I'm not offended at all.
    "My predominant feeling is one of gratitude. I have loved and been loved;I have been given much and I have given something in return...Above all, I have been a sentient being, a thinking animal, on this beautiful planet, and that in itself has been an enormous privilege and an adventure." O. Sacks

  8. #8
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    I
    don't
    compete.

    Why?

    I just don't even get it.


    Bumbling, I get completely and I do routinely.

  9. #9
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    We went on an extra long ride today and she kicked my butt again. damn she rides almost everyday. hard to keep up with that

  10. #10
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    It's not really hard too keep up with "she rides every day," Mr. Joe.

    You'll catch up if you ride every day too!

    (DH used to kick my butt, I had to do two rides a day to catch up.)

    Karen in Boise

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    My husband literally rides circles around me. He rides almost twice the distance I do, because he has to keep doubling back.

    However, I've run three marathons. He attempted running--either in an attempt to spend time with me, or prove "if you can do it, I can do it." He made it twice around the block.

    and bicycling is not as easy as it looks
    "Well-behaved women seldom make history." --Laurel Thatcher Ulrich

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrjoe View Post
    Are you trying to say that the disparity is only going to increase with time!
    Not necessarily. In the beginning, as well as now, it wasnt a competition with him. It just became apparent when I went to check on him and he wasnt on my wheel anymore. Later I went to group rides and rode with faster people and therefore got better, while he did not.

    I do credit my genes because although I am not out winning races and Olympic medals, I seem to be a natural cyclist. Add hard work and healthy eating to get me where I am even with the setbacks I have had including a broken pelvis 1 year ago.

 

 

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